beautifull breastsThere are some of those women out there that are still put off by the fact of her partner watching porn and using some sort of sex toy. This is because that they feel that it diminishes there relationship because that they feel that the man needs more than just them and they are in some way inadequate or inferior. It may sound so silly but it is true, that some women can get jealous of magazines or movies or web sites even, like chat sites with other women. These feelings are often aggravated when the adult toys or porn magazines are hidden away and kept private. This is because they feel that their man has some sort of hidden agenda skeletons in his closet.

What women tend to forget or just basically lack to understand that this is not supposed to be seen as a bed thing. You need to be able to change your perspective and think more along the lines of how this can bring the tow of you closer to each other. Do not hide things and try to talk about it and ask questions as to why he would need these magazines or sex aids. If you talk about it, you will tend to find that it will most defiantly bring the two of you closer to each other through your honesty and openness. But having said this, this attitude is not just towards the women but can also be turned the other way. There are some of my patients that are men are highly disgusted by the fact that they found out that their female partners have some form of adult toy like a dildo or vibrator. This is also because of the fact that it makes them feel in superior and that they feel as though there women needs some other sort of satisfaction. Once again this is not the reason.

The problem with is that these women and men see the sex toys as some sort of rival or something that they would need to compete with. This comes from them being highly insecure about themselves and their partners are not actually then ones to blame but are defiantly the ones that take the brunt. The key to being comfortable in regards to all the sexual things that you want to do with your partners is confidence and honesty. You need to be able to be honest with your partner and be able to talk about sexual experiences, whether they be in the past or something that you would still like to experience. Remember one thing, those fantasies or fetishes will always be there. I am not saying that you must do everything that your partner wants or needs you to do but you need to be able to talk about it and come to some sort of compromise.

Know when we talk about sex toys, it is defiantly not a knew subject that has just suddenly rocked up on the block. Adult sex toys have been around for thousands of years and some even date back to ancient times of the romans. They might even date back further than that, who actually knows? Most people tend to think of sex toys as something that is only used for solo use, masturbation. But what you need to think about is the fact that you are able to incorporate them into your current relationship and by doing this you open up so many other doors of intimacy that you would never have thought about before. It can be used to take out the same old boring routine that couples tend to fall into and replace it with something knew and a way to keep things exciting in the bedroom. It may amaze you to think that there are some couples out there that still frown upon this subject. They are set in their old ways and are very narrow minded people.